Saturday, January 28, 2017

~heartland

January 29, 2017
We had to check on something at the Farm after church (usually we don't ever have to go out there on Sundays) and Kenny took us through a "short cut" which took us past a little community, over an undeveloped bridge and across somebody's back yard!  These adorable children were there and they must have had visitors do the same thing because they knew if they stood by the passage that we took to exit the chances of them getting some money was very good!   Kenny gave them each some bills and then Billy did and then I did.  It was totally unnecessary but they were so darling and grateful how could we ever turn them down!?! There was an older boy who was just on the side (probably around 8 or 9) that didn't want to beg or take any money.  After Bill and Kenny went ahead I pulled out some more money and insisted that he take it.  He was so sweet & kept telling me, "Arkoun"! (Thank You)
How could you resist these little darlings?
We got to the Farm and Kenny and Bill checked on the pasteurizing machine
and then we went back to the barn to visit with everyone, including the cows!
The boys don't seem to ever want to leave so I've learned that if I bring my Nook Book
along I can read the scriptures, next week's lesson, the Ensign or a novel!
Then I don't mind so much hanging at Moo Moo Farms!😜
We see so many crazy 'vehicle' scenes but because they usually occur while I am on my Moto
I don't get to take pictures.  While I was going back to the office (from the barn) I saw the
first truck driving along and all their heads were in perfect sync as they were checking out
something across the street.  The 2nd truck was a stroller in the back of the truck with the
parents were sitting on the floor and the baby was IN the stroller - What the!?! 😟😟😟

~all around the mulberry bush

welcome~
Reverence is an attitude of deep respect and love for Heavenly Father 
and Jesus Christ. It is much more than being quiet and sitting still during 
lesson, although our reverence is often evident in the way we act at 
church and in other sacred places. As we strive to become more reverent, 
we will feel the influence of the Holy Ghost more strongly in our lives.
 
Each Sunday (before Sacrament Meeting) we set up 3 of the 7 
stations of the Nursery (it's a little more like a junior primary class 
~18 mos to 6yr olds)! We do this early so that right when the children 
start gathering for a fun filled day . . . we. are. ready. !!!
   

 
 
Our "Welcome Song" is alway so fun! 
I'm not sure who gets more excited about it ~ me or the kids!!!
"Kobe, Kobe we're glad you're here today, Kobe, Kobe won't you stay and play?" 
I've been singing this Welcome Song since the first time I was in the nursery.  
(Kobe is my 15 year old(est) grandson)!
 
Our newest member of the Nursery is Sasha Evans - she is a Canadian Elementary School Teacher and we are lucky to have her in the nursery with us!

Anna paid me the highest compliment today!  After class her Mom, Michele, 
came up and said that Anna wouldn't leave the house until she got, "a headband like Sister Matthews'."  Is that not the sweetest thing in the whole wide world!?!   IT MADE MY DAY!

Friday, January 27, 2017

~don't rock the boat baby

Saturday, January 28, 2017 
Celebrating Chinese New Year's on a Beautiful Cruise Boat!
Sunset on the Mekong
Our Branch activity was a Boat Cruise Saturday night! It was so much fun! Everyone brought their favorite food to share ~ we brought Krispy Kreme Donuts!
Everyone came and we enjoyed visiting, dancing and delicious food!It was such a sweet time with wonderful people.  
Our Branch may be small in numbers but they are great in spirit!

"Dance the Night Away"
Farewell to an Amazing Night! 

Wednesday, January 25, 2017

~easy rider

moto's rule~
Yesterday, as Billy and I were riding around on our Moto's (scooters/mopeds), I thought it would be fun to make a list of some of the funny "driving rules" that we've seen and learned while living here in Cambodia.  That way if someone decides to rent (or buy) a Moto they will have a better idea and understanding of what they are getting themselves into!

1. The first rule of thumb is to get the smallest and lightest Moto you can fit on.  It will be easier to lift it off the ground (in case you fall) and it is better to be slow and in control then fast and crash (and have a heavy Moto land on you).

2. Get familiar with your Moto, especially your little horn (and of course your brakes).  There is not a lot of honking (beeping) on the streets but it is for your own safety if you are unable to move out of the way and something (or someone) is coming at you.  You just want to be able to give a little honk so they know you are a newbie and can't get out of their way.
3. Always wear a Helmet. Always wear a Helmet. Always wear a Helmet (knee pads are optional).
4. No SUDDEN moves or turns (see:  "Back in the Saddle Again").  Only merge, slowly and safely, checking all around you as you go!
5. As you merge onto a street you want to be aware that no one else is aware of you. So it's not like you can come out and expect people to stop or even move over for you.  You need to gage the distance between your exit with the next oncoming bit of traffic and get up to speed as fast as possible.  Fortunately, the traffic usually goes pretty slow because of the crowded streets and pot holes (which is to your advantage).
6. It is ok to go at a slow speed (25mph), just stay to your right and expect other drivers to pass you (at a higher speed ~ 40mph). As you drive don't get too close to the sidewalk as you will have oncoming traffic coming at you (with them going in the wrong direction) meaning they will be coming strait at you! And remember that cars, tuk-tuk's and moto's will pass very close to you, sometimes knocking your side view mirror down ( Not that I'm speaking from experience 😉).7. Pay attention when you are on your Moto: no people watching or window shopping. 
8. Eyes on the road at all time with a keen sense of your peripheral view. Try to always be aware of everyone (all vehicles) and everything (people, trash, potholes, misc. items) around you WHILE looking strait ahead!

9. When passing or merging or turning (or just moving) you MUST look both ways each time and look behind you on each side every time, too, because POOF there are vehicles (and things) all over you on every side possible at any given second (vertical, too)!
10. Expect other moto's, bicycles, tuk~tuk's and the occasional car to head strait at you even if you are on a one way street. 
11. You have to assume that everyone else has the right of way and you do not. This will keep you on your toes and conscientious of everyone and everything around you. This way nothing will take you by surprise (even though everything does).
12. Realize that there are "no rules" on the road (or sidewalks) for the Khmer people. 
13. Understand that there are lights at some intersections but these are mostly optional for the Khmer people. It is a fairly new concept and they are trying to decide if this is something that they would like to adopt (and obey) in Cambodia.
14. In most country's when you are at an intersections a person who comes upon the busy street from a side street will stop or at least yield.  This is not the case in Cambodia - EVER.  They just turn onto your street without even glancing to see if vehicles (you) are in the lane they are supposedly merging into - death wish?!?
15. As you drive you mostly will go with the decision that the "masses” are going.  If they all decide to just ignore the light and keep going strait, feel free to follow along (you are doing everyone a favor; by stopping you will get bumped or possibly run over or at the very least you will frustrate the other drivers!)!
16. On narrow streets or when you are passing someone you might think that it is a game of "chicken".  The drivers really are not playing "chicken" but rather they can gage if you will move over, slow down or stop. They have been trained since birth so they are very good at this and you will become proficient at it in no time at all. 
17. As mentioned before the masses have the right of way.  This means if you come upon a busy street or are at any intersection with cars buzzing by in both directions and there is no foreseeable break in the near future, what you'll need to do is tag up with another moto, tuk-tuk, car or bicycle (the more the merrier).  Once there is a big enough group of you (or one very brave individual), you begin to merge into the cross traffic and the crossing cars begin to slow down and you are able to ease your way into the traffic and get across the street. In many areas this has caused a gridlock to occur but that is usually only during periods of heavy traffic or during holidays!
18. News Flash - two of the main roads by our home were just paved!  This is so fantastic because it was murder trying to negotiate around the potholes in the streets (and the sidewalks) while avoiding getting hit by the other vehicles who were also going around each pothole (which there were like, 50 per block).
19. Bad News Flash - two of our main roads were just paved - now the vehicles are going twice as fast so believe it or not it is now MORE dangerous than before!
As you get over the shock of the crazy driving in Cambodia and accept it and then embrace it, your driving days will be merry and bright! What used to be such a shocker to you is now second nature and it will be you who now will shock other newbies in Cambodia with your newly acquired skills.
Extra heavy traffic during the Holiday's
This list is not to scare you or steer you away from driving. Driving in Cambodia is a fun and thrilling experience.  As long as you understand the rules, don't get your feelings hurt, don't get mad at the other drivers and realize that this is their country and these are their rules (or lack of them) you will do just fine! And rest assured that there are Angels hovering over this sweet country of Cambodia!

Sunday, January 22, 2017

~king of wishful thinking

HAPPY HAPPY~

We kept Bill's Birthday on the down-low as he doesn't like a big fanfare (like I do).  We attended church in the morning (where Bill had to conduct and I played the organ ~teehee) then we went home for a relaxing day!
I made Pancakes & Spam with a 
little MooMoo Milk on the side (usually Bill fixes our Sunday meal)! 
We had a few of Bill's favorite things to snack on later on! 
Atticus, Kenny and Timmy all got drones for Christmas and 
Billy was eyeing all of them so I surprised him with one of his own! 
And the best present he got showed up a day late . . . Kenny arrived in Cambodia 
on Monday morning and they had a fun-filled day of Dairy Farming!!

Wednesday, January 18, 2017

~did i shave my legs for this?

~Yowzers
Monday afternoon (01/16/17)  the back of my leg, below my knee cap, started hurting. I was limping and had a hard time walking on it.  In the middle of the night when I got out of bed I couldn't even put any weight on it. I figured out that if I walked with both my legs bent, with me bent over, I could shuffle on my tippy toes to get around. Tuesday morning it was worse and I started worrying (and was a bit scared) that it could be a blood clot since there was no other symptoms present that would indicate anything else.  I told Billy we needed to go to the hospital so we stopped for a short 10am meeting then got to the hospital around noon.  The doctor looked at it and sent me for an Ultrasound and blood work which, fortunately, showed that it wasn't a blood clot (as far as they could tell).
The doctor said he needed the Surgeon to give a 2nd opinion.   After an hour and a half (it being everyones lunch break) the "Surgeon" from Thailand came in (I think sometimes they confuse 'surgeon' with 'specialist').  He asked a lot of questions then he started manipulating the spot. This hurt but actually seemed to help (and at this point I didn't care about anything as long as it wasn't a blood clot).  He then injected some pain medicine in my leg (twice) with a very long needle (yipes - hurt like the dickens). He still couldn't bend it strait without me screaming (inside) but when I stood up it did seem less painful (at least I had to believe that or else he would have felt like a failure).  He was pretty sure it was gastrocnemius spasm/contraction. He just knew that the shot would make all the pain go away so I was trying to accommodate his hope!! He told me to rest or exercise whichever felt best (?) Hmmmmmm, I think I'd better rest! 

Wednesday - My leg felt 90% better - I still babied it but it seemed on the mend.  We got a massage that night and that felt great and I think we finally found an ok girl - (at least she didn't constantly rub the skin, repeating an up and down motion, over and over for 5 minutes in the same place ~ so this alone made her pretty good)!  Thursday - My leg is hurting again this morning and I can't bend my leg strait without causing pain (just like before but not quite as excruciating, which is a good sign).  I think the pain meds just wore off so now it will just be a matter of time before it gets better (and some Advil).  With all the manipulating of my leg my knee is really sore, too. I know, at some point, I will need both my knees replacement but what I'm hoping is that I can just get another gel treatment along with cortisone shots before our mission in May and that will carry me along for a bit longer!  

Thinking back on my Monday activities I think my left leg must have gotten hurt from walking down 5 flights of stairs at the Investment Company's office.  The reason I think this might have been the cause is because yesterday both my calves were killing me (in a good way)!